It's all about "MY"

This is my first blog and I want to write something that I can keep as an asset and have a view whenever I feel the need ,for the rest of my life.

Most of us (Of course the lucky ones) get almost 75-80 yrs of lifespan.Now here we are endowed with many many types of emotions of love,hatred,jealousy,desire,disgust,anger…. We as an individual try to manage all of these emotions in the most efficient way we can ,to move ahead for an overall average happy and comfortable life.Things come, people come and incidents occur and we keep on fighting severely every time for the sake of our inner smile.But then among all these numerous emotions my personal view ranks "love" to be at the topmost position in my list not only for me, but for a majority of mass in general.This love is constitutional in all of us for our family,our parents and near n dear friends.We don’t ever need to put any extra ingredient to garnish the impeccable emotion(in normal cases)..But what if we bury ourselves too much in the world of emotions only???

Here comes the trouble..Yes we loose our self,our identity,our motive,our life.And we adjust ourselves to the life which has no "my" to it.We remain busy fulfilling those big or even little desires and expectations of our loved ones which even might not be something of much concern to them.And mostly we get so used to of this life that we don’t even feel any pain in ruining our  "my".Many a times we even become frustrated if we could not achieve the thing desired by our people.We start demoralising ourselves and make a hell out of our life.It happens with most of us.For each n every little action we start analyzing it from their point of view.Now that’s not called life that’s called a responsibility with an overwhelming burden.It’s actually a habit and such people are always dependent and leave themselves hanging between choices for the whole life.I don’t find any personal story or specific person but I know it’s common very common among all of us and we all must have had experienced it at some point of our life.

Life is to live,cherish,perform and achieve.Our happiness should have a special place,in fact we need to be special for ourselves.Now we of course need not hurt the people we belong to, but trust me if they hold such important place and are so special ,then they won’t ever feel distress in our happiness.No one can ever deny how good is the feeling of  ‘doing something for someone’….But it can’t be a habit else the world will become hell and very impractical to live in.Bringing out our self ,our thoughts ,our wishes ,our ideas of fun, our favourites,our “my” (of course with proper respect to others’ emotions)should be the real FUNDA!!